"I used everything you gave me"

When I stand before God at the end of my life, I would hope that I would not have a single bit of talent left, and could say, "I used everything you gave me."
~Erma Bombeck

I've been reminded today how very precious and fragile life is. We've lost two family members today.

Early today we learned that my cousin, Rob, was killed when the helicopter that was shot down in Afghanistan last night. He was a Navy SEAL. I was amazed by what he did daily. To protect me...and my kids. He was a hero. His death was tragic and far too early.

This evening Casey's grandfather passed. Also unexpected, yet not surprising. He had lived a long life. A good life. We had the opportunity to spend time with him a couple of weeks ago. It was precious time.

I think both of these men did just what Ms. Bombeck was talking about. Rob died doing what he loved. Serving our country and protecting those he loved (and those he didn't even know). Papa K spent his life in the pursuit of knowledge. He left a legacy in my husband and so many others.

I hope I can follow both of their examples.

August 6. A hard day. Yet full of new life, too. Our sweet nephew, JP, turned one today. A life beginning. Still new. Full of promise.

In the end, it's not going to matter how many breaths you took, but how many moments took your breath away.

Tell those closest to you that you love them today.